Anonymous said: Hey, regarding a question you got a few posts ago when you said you and your boyfriend 'stepped up your sex life', can you explain a bit? My boyfriend and I started having sex recently & we were both virgins before so we're just trying to figure out what works for each other
Um really we just got more comfortable with each other and started being more honest about what we enjoy and where our boundaries lie. Like for example, during the beginning of our relationship we went straight to sex, no oral or any type of prior simulation and most of the time it was only missionary. Also, we were only having sex once or twice a month compared to now, there’s a lot of foreplay prior to penetration, oral, and several types of positions plus 6 or 7 times a month. Then during the middle of our relationship, whenever my boyfriend felt close to orgasm, he would stop and eat me out and that would give him an extra boost to last longer. So the little things really. It may not take you as long as we did to get completely comfortable with each other but it does take a little time. Trial, error, and patience will be your best friend lol.