Anonymous asked: hey, I'm feeling abit insecure/sad about this, and I would like your opinion on it. so I'm still in high school, and I've never gone any further than kissing a girl. and from what I have been told or heard from everyone else, most of the people I hang out with have already lost their virginity, and that has made me feel abit insecure or whatever. so do you feel like that's a good or bad thing? BTW, love the blog
It’s neither good nor bad, however you feel about the situation is how you feel.
Personally, I don’t think you should give a damn about what your friends have done and what they think about you. If they make fun of you for it, like constant hard core jokes and not playful teasing, you’re hanging around the wrong kind of people. You don’t have to feel pressured into doing anything, when YOU are READY to engage in any kind of sexual activities, it’s when YOU are ready. Not your friends, YOU. There’s literally your entire life of sex ahead of you whether it’s tomorrow, next week, six years from now, don’t rush and don’t feel sad about anything. Especially if you’re still in high school, don’t worry about anything you have so much to live for and so many experiences you have yet to live. Your time will come and you will be surprised what happens when you stop looking for things in life and let them come to you.