Anonymous said: Hey, your blog is awesome! I feel like these gifs are way better than actual porn videos haha. Keep up the good work<3 I want to ask for some advice too though... Me and my bf always have hard and rough sex, but sometimes I want us to take it a little slower and be more romantic... How do I get my bf to keep a slower, steadier pace? He is rather dominant. I once asked him if we could take it slow but we ended up getting hardcore lol. Also, is it normal if we have sex at least 3 times a day? Ty<3
Lol thank you! Happens all the time with me too lol. For me, I find it’s really simple and easy to communicate with my boyfriend during and after sex. Like you said that you tried talking about it and did the opposite, try during sex. Like if he starts going too fast tell him to go slower but in a seductive way you know, so he doesn’t take it the wrong way or it doesn’t come out the wrong way. Just doing it in a whisper or in between a moan. And if he doesn’t catch on or he starts to quicken his pace, SHOW him how you want it done. Take his hands and slow him down yourself. And something that I found REALLY helpful was quietly telling my boyfriend in his ear while kissing him I wanted him to make love to me and he went nice and slow and lasted a really long time. I’ve tried both and that seems to work so try it, it could work for you too :) And yes that’s very normal, nothing wrong with having sex more than once in a day.