Anonymous said: Hey I am the mother of four kids!! Before I had kids (oldest is 17) I used to be able to orgasm through penetration alone!! Now that I am 48 the only way it seems that my husband can get me off is through cunnilingus (oral) and it can take up to and hour for me to orgasm!! He is a particularly patient giving loving man to do this for me!! We want to try new things to see if some could work any feedback would be appreciated!!
As you age, you lose sensitivity down there and it becomes increasingly difficult to reach orgasm with penetration alone especially after children. After you bear a child I’m sure you know it’s not the same down there lol. But congratulations on still being sexual after children, especially four! You hardly see that anymore in today’s society :/ But maybe the two of you can have some alone time to spice things up. Watch porn together, walk around naked, do something adventurous! Go out and have a nice time just the two of you. Adrenaline does help with orgasm and now that you are older, it’s going to take more than just penetration or even oral alone to reach orgasm because of how less sensitive everything is down there. Hope that helps a little :)